Posts Tagged ‘People’

Cracked Pot


2008
08.22

Worth read, Here is a story I recently received as fwd…

Once upon a time, there was a water bearer, who had two large pots, each hung on the ends of a pole which he carried across his neck. One of the pots had a crack in it, while the other pot was perfect and always delivered a full portion of water.

At the end of the long walk from the stream to the house, the cracked pot arrived only half full. For a full two years this went on daily, with the bearer delivering only one and a half pots full of water to his house. Of course, the perfect pot was proud of its accomplishments, perfect for which it was made. But the poor cracked pot was ashamed of its own imperfection, and miserable that it was able to accomplish only half of what it had been made to do.

After two years of what it perceived to be a bitter failure, it spoke to the water bearer one day by the stream. “I am ashamed of myself, and I want to apologize to you. I have been able to deliver only half my load because this crack in my side causes water to leak out all the way back to your house.

Because of my flaws, you have to do all of this work, and you don’t get full value from your efforts,” the pot said. The bearer said to the pot, “Did you notice that there were flowers only on your side of the path, but not on the other pot’s side? That’s because I have always known about your flaw, and I planted flower seeds on your side of the path, and every day while we walk back, you’ve watered them. For two years I have been able to pick these beautiful flowers to decorate the table. Without you being just the way you are, there would not be this beauty to grace the house.”

Each of us has our own unique flaws. We’re all cracked pots. But it’s the cracks and flaws we each have that make our lives together so very interesting and rewarding.

Expect Unexpected


2008
04.24

Day: April 22, 2008

A man (Rajesh Uncle) in his 40’s has 3 kids (jyoti, gini, kunal), mother (maaji) and wife (Sunita) as dependent. He is just another man but honest, dedicated, trustworthy, kind and God-fearing. He is younger out of two siblings. They both own a flat and are separated. His brother is well educated, smart and financially rich. But, He sits near to poverty line. He is not educated well and drives autorickshaw for living. But, he wants his 2 daughters (jyoti, gini) and 1 son (kunal) to be well-educated and happy in their 40’s. He works hard for them and his wife supports her as his second hand. His wife is home maker and his mother is a heart patient and her medication is going on. It doesnt matter, But ppl may ask, How do i know him ? Am i asking for money or help, blah blah ? No, Rajesh Uncle is in our neighbourhood (@ my mother’s place).

Same Day, Morning Time: He gets up at 5, after daily chores, He drops his jyoti, gini at school. Elder one is in 5th std, younger is in 3rd std. Comes back, cleans the auto, enjoy breakfast with kunal, sunita auntie and maaji. He leaves for his work around 8ish. He drives the autorickshaw throughout the day,

Same day, Evening Time: He comes home at 7′o clock, talk to his kids, wife and mother. But today is Tuesday, so Rajesh uncle, Sunita auntie, and Kunal leaves for Hanuman Mandir (a Temple). Every tuesday, they go to temple if not all, atleast uncle goes.

Same day, Night, at 8pm: They are at temple, praying to God and making offerings. They get prasadam and they leave. As Uncle started his auto, kunal asks for ice-cream, “ek ice-cream dena bhaiya” (give me an ice-cream bro) Uncle said. Kunal is jumping with joy… so as auntie and uncle, to see him happy. And …everyone head towards home.

Same day, Night, at 9pm: I am talking to Ma, about how will they go to my in-laws place on saturday to meet them before they leave for US. She said, ” that’s not a problem beta (daughter), I will speak to your Rajesh uncle tomorrow, for saturday, if he can give us ride,”. We generally hire him when we need auto, as he is good driver and we pay him little extra, though he never accept but Ma is elder and swears him…

Same day, Night, at 10pm: They are on their way to home. Everything is going so smooth, financially they may not be strong but their moments of happiness, moments of sharing, moments of his care toward family, is what makes him going and hence the family.  Everyone is happy, Kunal is feeling bit sleepy. Home is just 15-20 mins close, so it is fine. Suddenly, in the blink of an eye, Sunita auntie gets a hit on her head, Kunal started crying, Rajesh Uncle is rolling towards one side of road and auto is on the another side, shattered. 

It was an accident, a high speed car just banged the auto @ red-light, it was green for Rajesh uncle and red for that car. It was blood everywhere. Immediately police arrived (not usual in delhi), and took all three to hospital, doctor said there are minor fractures, uncle should be home tomorrow morning. His brother was informed, he took Sunita auntie and kunal to home and went back to hospital, making sure that no one panics at home. Sunita auntie is brave lady, she dint cry so as not to panic the children. She took them to sleep and sat near to maaji and waited for the call from his brother-in-law.

Following Morning, 4am : Everyone from Sunita auntie’s mother side reaches home (her mother ’s family, her mothers’ sister’s (2) family, mother’s brother’s (4) family….around 200 ppl). Everyone knows but not sunita auntie. She is told but she is not accepting the fact.

Rajesh Uncle is dead. 

Life throws at you unexpectedly the never expected things… 
what will happen to Sunita aunite, three kids and maaji ? They say God is there for us, when we need. It is wrong, Was there a single thought about their food, education, clothes, need for father… while God was making this plan ? This was not fair from His side.

April 1st…


2008
04.01

“April 1st: This is the day upon which we are reminded of what we are on the other three-hundred and sixty-four.”
-Mark Twain

Basically no one knows exactly where, when, or why the celebration began. What we do know is that references to ‘All Fool’s Day’ (what April Fool’s Day was first called) began to appear in Europe during the late Middle Ages. All Fool’s Day was a folk celebration and elite participation in it was minimal (which is why it’s so difficult to trace the exact origin of the day, because the people celebrating it back then weren’t the kind of people who kept records of what they did). But what is clear is that the tradition of a day devoted to foolery has ancient roots

See what google does on this very day:
Google Hoaxes
Google Search for April Fools

Njoi being a Fool !!!

I am sad


2008
01.11

I was shocked when i heard one of my good friend expired. I was stunned, she was of my age…

For the first time, I met her in UK, then we became good friends in bangalore,
we used to have lunch together, went to places. i cant forget the rides we shared at WonderLa, near bangalore.

She and a best friend came home and we ate aloo paranthas with lassi like hell…. we had so much fun. :( She was energetic, fun-loving, outgoing, shopping spree…..she used to bring life to the conversation.

Oh, those moments, make me cry.. she had to see the world yet.. God, why did u do this to her…. you would have taken me instead of her ???

For past few weeks, i have been trying to learn, practice and share various spritual lessons, but when it comes to real life… we just take a u-turn and get along with world around us. I guess, God also look for good people.

I accept here what God has done, there must be some purpose… May God bless her soul !!! thats all i can say and pray.
:-(

Life is short


2008
01.10

I was shocked when i heard one of my good friend expired. I was stunned, she was of my age… For the first time, I met her in UK, then we became good friends in bangalore, we used to have lunch together, went to places. i cant forget the rides we shared at WonderLa, near bangalore.

She and a best friend came home and we ate aloo paranthas with lassi like hell…. we had so much fun. :( She was energetic, fun-loving, outgoing, shopping spree…..she used to bring life to the conversation.

Oh, those moments, make me cry.. she had to see the world yet.. God, why did u do this to her…. you would have taken me instead of her ???

For past few weeks, i have been trying to learn, practice and share various spritual lessons, but when it comes to real life… we just take a u-turn and get along with world around us.

I guess, God also look for good people. I accept here what God has done, there must be some purpose…

May God bless her soul !!! thats all i can say and pray. :-(

Gandhi’s Talisman


2008
01.06

After school days, this is my second glance on Gandhi’s Talisman ::

“I will give you a talisman. Whenever you are in doubt, or when the self becomes too much with you, apply the following test.
Recall the face of the poorest and the weakest man [woman] whom you may have seen, and ask yourself, if the step you contemplate is going to be of any use to him [her]. Will he [she] gain anything by it? Will it restore him [her] to a control over his [her] own life and destiny? In other words, will it lead to swaraj [freedom] for the hungry and spiritually starving millions?Then you will find your doubts and your self melt away.”

- One of the last notes left behind by Gandhiji in 1948, expressing his deepest social thought.
Source: Mahatma Gandhi [Last Phase, Vol. II (1958), P. 65].

When i read, even now while writing, i am in tears and questioning, am i doing something for those who are struggling to survive ? am i helping my motherland in any ways ? No. I am like one of those, who just sit, watch, laugh on my motherland… from far off ….in US. :-(

Preparation for Death


2008
01.04

Light man, halwaii are settled, flower laces are on balconies, girls are outside shopping, kids are running around, tent wala is just shouting for space, what is this chios ?

what the hell is going around in this house ? hahah, there is a marriage of a girl – this is a scene of 15th day before the wedding day. relatives are coming in, cards are printed and distributed, blah blah…tons of to-dos.

So much of preparation of marriage, which is stay going to stay for one day, post that everyobe will cry and depart for their houses. Immediate family like, Mom n dad will also settle down in their office and household works respectively.

Have we ever thought of Death in same way ? Where is a preparation for Death ? yeah Death ?

lets say i am dying next Friday ? what have i done yet to have a peaceful death ? People say Death is not peaceful, ppl cry while leaving, why ? as they face all the bad deeds that they did throught their lifespan. they have to summarize their bad n good deeds to God.

No one looks back, Death is the only time when ppl realize if they can get more time to correct themselves. just like year end, there is a income tax return, when we look for the income tax advisor and get rid of issues. that is for one year. imagine the tax return of bad deeds for whole lifespan ?

If we start preparing for death from today then instead of fearing from it, God will come Himself to drive us till Moksha – where there is no comeback to earth :)

Blood Diamond


2007
02.09

Watched Blood diamond movie from Edward Zwick, an action thriller but it cant hide the facts that Zwick wants to teach audiences another history lesson and lecture them on political correctness.

Apparently, in one of the dialogues Zwick becomes philosphical and highlights on people and their actions.

“They are just people. Its their deed which make them Good or Bad.”

“I sometimes think, ‘Will GOD ever forgive us for what we have done to each other?’, but then i realize that GOD has left this place long time back.

I totally agree with the statement. How about you? Any views, just shoot….